Life at 20s. When women start needing stabilizations.
What is live all about? Being born, raised, educated, having achievements, passed tasks, trying new experiences, get attached with someone, have children, and raise them... so the circle of life continued. Hmm...
Ok, this is me. In my early 20s, yet already feel that friends around me are like looking for a long-term relationship. Starting to worry about their love life and stuff like that. Some even desperate asking for potential candidates through their friends.
Well, here in Jakarta I found that "mak comblang" thingy is very common. Unlike in Surabaya, where people are more...shy and introvert, people in Jakarta tend to be opened about these kinds of things. Nothing's wrong with that. Some people do meet through those introductories :)
I am one of the people who believe that there is a soulmate -somewhere in the universe- for each of us who is destined to be bounded in marriage. For the rest, I believe some are just destined to be singles. I am not one of that last group, though. I still believe that I would get married one day... I just don't know when. Could be 3 years from now, could be 20 years from now! I am not worry about age, coz I know that God has plans for everyone. Being married , I think it's a chance to fulfill our life. To have an accompanion when you grow old. To take care of each other from times to times. To have unbounded sex (Yep, especially that :p)
But the weird fact I found is that there are many, many men who refuse to get married. They usually said that women are a lot of troubles and would ruin their life rhythm. Hehehe... don't we all women have somethin' to introspected?
Yesterday Sonnya and her friend, Konenk, introduced me to an architect. Hahaha, it was soo obvious that they want to matched us up. Well, I don't wanna return a good deed... soo... I dunnoo... Son, if you're reading this just clap your hands and ask him to call me, maybe sometimes? hehehe... ^____________^ *sok jaim mode ON*
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Quote: "They usually said that women are a lot of troubles and would ruin their life rhythm. Hehehe... don't we all women have somethin' to introspected?"
And you believe that? No one on earth likes to be alone and not be an object of affection of others. I'd like to think they say that to cover their being chicken to face the real relationship and responsibility.
From what I've gatherred, not all men are afraid of relationships/marriage. They just want to do it right and wait till the time (as well as spouse) is right to commit. Of course for almost all people commitment is way serious and not to be treated carelessly and thoughtlessly. And that's a pretty reasonable thing to do.
Both men and women are troubles, cause we are unique individuals! If there's anyone to do the introspection, it's everyone.
hmm... yeah, i know that both men and women have lackness and like mars and venus. We hardly could understand the opposite sex. But then, I'm just saying from my sight of view, that we need intospection. Sometimes women can be quite annoying creatures (including me!:D). I rarely heard a statement of being unmarried from women...
But, yea, I got ur point, La.
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