Tuesday, February 14, 2006

Valentine's Special: R U Dateable??

This is a book I read recently ("Dateable Rules"). Only took me about 2 hours to read the entire essence. Such a fun book ^___^ U should get it, guys! Justin and Hayley are quite unique beings, that like to speak their points out roughly but nice. They have spoken from school to school all over the world, and giving advice to youngsters in the matter of drugs, sex, juvinile crimes, etc. Bottom line is: they have been disposal bins all their life.

Well, now... since it's not that easy to find their books here, allow me to share them to you :)
Here are the ultimate 10 rules that u need to commit:



Dateable Girl Rules
  1. Accept your Girly-ness – You’re a girl. Be proud of all that means. You are soft, you are gentle, you are woman. Don’t try to be a guy. Guys like you because you are different from them. So let your girly-ness soar.
  2. Tell it Like it is - Dateable girls don’t lie to themselves. They don’t say stuff like, “His girlfriend just isn’t good to him, that’s why he’s seeing me on the side.” Or “She started it so I’m going to get even.” The Dateable girl let’s God run the world, and tells herself the truth, that all she can control is herself. She doesn’t imagine things to be more than they are.
  3. The sexiest thing on a girl is happiness – Girls try so hard to add beauty and sexuality to themselves with clothes and make-up, but the truth is it’s your spirit that makes you hot. Your outlook on life, your happiness factor. Dateable girls aren’t downers, they love life.
  4. Girls DON'T fight girls, ever – Revenge belongs to God. Dateable girls know that when they fight other girls they look stupid and catty, and guys don’t like it, any more than God does.
  5. Believe in your Beauty – Dateable girl learn how to overcome the sins of the past that have been perpetrated on them. They don’t let the enemy steal their beauty. God made them, so they know they are beautiful, even if they don’t feel like it sometimes.
  6. Be Mysterious – Dateable girls know how to shut up. They don’t monopolize the conversation. They don’t tell everyone everything about themselves. They save some for later. They listen more than they gab.
  7. Act Confident – Dateable girls know that confidence is hot. And the cool part is that no one knows if you are confident but you. Confidence isn’t how you feel, it’s how you act. Act confident and people will think you are.
  8. Look 'em in the eye – Part of being a Dateable girl means you really see people. They matter, and if you don’t look them in the eye then you will never see them and they will never know they matter to you. Look em in the eye, they are valuable.
  9. Let him lead – God made guys as leaders. Dateable girls get that and let him do guy things, get a door, open a ketchup bottle. They relax and let guys be guys. Which means they don’t ask him out!!!
  10. Need Him - Dateable girls know that guys need to be needed. A Dateable girl isn’t Miss Independent. She knows we are made for community. Needing each other is part of faith. She allows him to be needed at times, knowing he was called to serve just as much as she was.
Simple, but not-that-easy, right? I have nothing to share, or comment, since I'm not that expert either -___- Duh! Check out the website and fill in the quiz. Good luck ;)


Happy Valentine's day...

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